Sh\u00ebndeti mendor \u00ebsht\u00eb fush\u00eb q\u00eb mjaft bukur \u00ebsht\u00eb studjuar, shtjelluar dh\u00eb zb\u00ebrthyer sidomos n\u00eb dekad\u00ebn e fundit, duke fal\u00ebnderuar rrjetin global si dhe mund\u00ebsin\u00eb e individ\u00ebv\u00eb m\u00eb prapavij\u00eb, gjini, dh\u00eb rrethana t\u00eb ndryshme p\u00ebr t\u00eb ndar\u00eb p\u00ebrvojat e tyre, dhe n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb form\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb mund\u00ebsuar studimi i p\u00ebrjetimeve t\u00eb p\u00ebrbashk\u00ebta ashtu q\u00eb profesionist\u00ebt t\u00eb gjenin zgjidhje dhe t\u00eb zhvillonin mjete p\u00ebr tejkalim dhe p\u00ebr menaxhim t\u00eb shqet\u00ebsimeve shpirt\u00ebrore, p\u00ebr p\u00ebrmir\u00ebsim t\u00eb kualitetit jet\u00ebsor si dhe shmangje, minimizim apo eliminim t\u00eb vuajtjeve t\u00eb m\u00ebtutjshme.<\/p>\n
Nj\u00eb fush\u00eb kaq e gj\u00ebr\u00eb me shum\u00eb faktor\u00eb q\u00eb nxisin epizod\u00eb apo nj\u00eb gjendje t\u00eb r\u00ebnduar shpirt\u00ebrore, sigurisht se ka arsye dh\u00eb manifestim\u00eb t\u00eb ndryshme, nga ata q\u00eb r\u00ebndojn\u00eb j\u00ebt\u00ebn e p\u00ebrditshme deri te ato q\u00eb thjesht krijojn\u00eb bezdisje dhe v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsojn\u00eb realizimin e potencialit individiual, mir\u00ebpo ne do t\u00eb ndalemi p\u00ebr t\u00eb zb\u00ebrthyer ndikimiin e opresionit patriakal n\u00eb sh\u00ebndetin mendor qoft\u00eb tek grat\u00eb apo tek burrat.<\/p>\n
\u00cbsht\u00eb e drejt\u00eb e gjithsecilit q\u00eb t\u00eb plot\u00ebsoj\u00eb nevojat elementare p\u00ebr mbijetes\u00eb, dhe p\u00ebr mir\u00ebqenie psiko-sociale, si t\u00eb jemi t\u00eb kuptuar, t\u00eb lir\u00eb, autonom n\u00eb marrjen e vendimeve pa diktat apo urdhra t\u00eb pal\u00ebs tjet\u00ebr mbi at\u00eb se kush duhet t\u00eb jemi dh\u00eb si duh\u00ebt t\u00eb veprojm\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Rr\u00ebmbimi i k\u00ebsaj t\u00eb drejte, nj\u00eb e ashtuquajtur diktatur\u00eb shpirt\u00ebrore e ushtruar tek partneri apo e vet\u00ebushtruar, historikisht ka lindur mirijada t\u00eb gjendjeve t\u00eb r\u00ebnduara psiko-sociale, me t\u00eb cilat ballafaqohemi dhe sot n\u00eb klinik\u00ebn e p\u00ebrditshme, mir\u00ebpo kuptohet edhe n\u00eb interaksionet personale.<\/p>\n
K\u00ebto lloj t\u00eb gjendjeve kan\u00eb mar\u00eb emra t\u00eb ndrysh\u00ebm, mir\u00ebpo posa\u00e7\u00ebrisht ‘histeria’ \u00ebsht\u00eb s\u00ebmundje q\u00eb i \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebrshkruar grave, n\u00eb kuad\u00ebr t\u00eb s\u00eb cil\u00ebs p\u00ebrshkruhet ankthi, depresioni, munges\u00eb d\u00ebshir\u00eb dhe vullneti, q\u00eb realisht jan\u00eb manifestime t\u00eb natyrshme t\u00eb nj\u00eb unit t\u00eb shtypur, q\u00eb refuzon t\u2019i bindet vullnetit t\u00eb tj\u00ebtrit dhe n\u00eb shumic\u00ebn e rasteve \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb figur\u00eb autoritative qoft\u00eb prind\u00ebrore apo partnerit q\u00eb ushtron dhun\u00ebn psikologjike mbi tjetrin.<\/p>\n
Histeria, (em\u00ebr q\u00eb n\u00eb latinisht do t\u00eb thot\u00eb mit\u00ebr), fatmir\u00ebsisht\u00a0\u00ebsht\u00eb larguar nga libri zyrtar p\u00ebr diagnostfikim t\u00eb s\u00ebmundjeve psiqike<\/em><\/strong>\u00a0(DSM) , q\u00eb n\u00eb vitin 1980, mir\u00ebpo n\u00eb kultur\u00ebn e p\u00ebrditshme akoma, n\u00ebn rr\u00ebshta, shfryt\u00ebzohet si terminologji p\u00ebr t\u00eb p\u00ebrshkruar sjelljen e nj\u00eb gruaje, e cila duksh\u00ebm e shqet\u00ebsuar po ballafaqohet me emocione dhe ndjesi t\u00eb cilat nuk i em\u00ebrton dot, me qen\u00eb se d\u00ebshira e saj p\u00ebr realizim t\u00eb autonomis\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb shtypur me vite, dhe ajo q\u00eb ngelet jan\u00eb simptoma q\u00eb skan\u00eb em\u00ebr, vet\u00ebm ndjesi t\u00eb pa shpjegueshme.<\/p>\n N\u00eb t\u00eb kaluar\u00ebn nj\u00eb gjendje e till\u00eb e r\u00ebnduar, \u00ebsht\u00eb trajtuar n\u00eb forma brutale, me lobotomi t\u00eb trurit, shok terapi dhe me masturbim legal nga ana e mjek\u00ebve, q\u00eb n\u00eb retrospektiv\u00eb ishte dhe nj\u00eb tendenc\u00eb tjet\u00ebr q\u00eb \u2018gruaja\u2019 t\u00eb kontrollohej, n\u00eb vend q\u00eb t\u00eb d\u00ebgjohej, dh\u00eb t’i jepej hap\u00ebsira q\u00eb t\u00eb shprehte nevojat, d\u00ebshirat dhe t\u00eb shfryt\u00ebzonte lirin\u00eb e saj, sipas ambicies personale.<\/p>\n Nj\u00eb regjim absurd, q\u00eb tenton t\u00eb kontrolloj\u00eb nj\u00eb grup n\u00eb baz\u00eb gjinore, me standarde t\u00eb pa aplikueshme, nxit shqet\u00ebsim\u00eb shpirt\u00ebrore t\u00eb pashmangshme, q\u00eb marrin dhe emra degradues, sa p\u00ebr t\u00eb vulosur id\u00ebn\u00eb fillestare, se ky grup \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb i dob\u00ebt dhe i paaft\u00eb autonomi.<\/p>\n Andaj, ajo q\u00eb ka r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi \u00ebsht\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb jemi t\u00eb zgjuar dh\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebmendsh\u00ebm ndaj nevojave personale, t\u00eb edukuar shpirt\u00ebrisht, t’i njohim mir\u00eb kufijt\u00eb tona, t\u2019i b\u00ebjm\u00eb t\u00eb qarta d\u00ebshirat dhe t\u2019i komunikojm\u00eb ato pa ndjenj\u00eb t\u00eb fajit dhe turpit, si dhe n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb fuqishm\u00eb t\u00eb shfryt\u00ebzojm\u00eb lirin\u00eb ton\u00eb, q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e drejt\u00eb par\u00ebsore dh\u00eb jo e dh\u00ebn\u00eb nga dikush, por e lindur.<\/p>\n Sh\u00ebndeti mendor \u00ebsht\u00eb fush\u00eb q\u00eb mjaft bukur \u00ebsht\u00eb studjuar, shtjelluar dh\u00eb zb\u00ebrthyer sidomos n\u00eb dekad\u00ebn e fundit, duke fal\u00ebnderuar rrjetin global si dhe mund\u00ebsin\u00eb e individ\u00ebv\u00eb m\u00eb prapavij\u00eb, gjini, dh\u00eb rrethana t\u00eb ndryshme p\u00ebr t\u00eb ndar\u00eb p\u00ebrvojat e tyre, dhe n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb form\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb mund\u00ebsuar studimi i p\u00ebrjetimeve t\u00eb p\u00ebrbashk\u00ebta ashtu q\u00eb profesionist\u00ebt t\u00eb gjenin […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":10439,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[7],"tags":[38,26,66,71],"class_list":["post-10438","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-pasoja","tag-feministing","tag-shendetesi","tag-shendeti-grave","tag-shendeti-mendor"],"yoast_head":"\nSHKRIMI \u00cbSHT\u00cb SHKRUAR EKSKLUZIVISHT P\u00cbR\u00a0MOLLEKUQJA.MK. T\u00cb DREJTAT E PUBLIKIMIT I KAN\u00cb VET\u00cbM\u00a0MOLLEKUQJA.MK DHE AUTORI, SIPAS MARR\u00cbVESHJES MES TYRE.<\/em><\/strong><\/h5>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"