Shum\u00eb shpesh burrat, n\u00eb nj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb ose n\u00eb nj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr, kan\u00eb arritur q\u00eb t\u2019i mbajn\u00eb edhe grat\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb zonja n\u00ebn hije. Shum\u00eb shpesh d\u00ebgjojm\u00eb p\u00ebr gra q\u00eb kan\u00eb shkruar me pseudonime burrash. Shkrimtaret m\u00eb t\u00eb njohura si Simone de Beauvoir, motrat Bront\u00eb, Sylvia Plath, t\u00eb gjitha e kan\u00eb fshehur krijimtarin\u00eb e tyre n\u00ebn nj\u00eb em\u00ebr burri. F.Scott Fitzerald madje thuhet se i ka vjedhur fshehurazi shkrimet e t\u00eb shoqes, Zelda Fitzerald, dhe me to \u00ebsht\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb i famsh\u00ebm.\u00a0Kryevepr\u00ebn e njohur \u201cFrankenshtejni\u201d, autorja angleze Mary Shelley e botoi anonym, por t\u00eb gjith\u00eb ishin t\u00eb bindur se ky lib\u00ebr u shkrua nga bashk\u00ebshorti i saj Percy B. Shelley dhe jo nga vet\u00eb ajo.\u00a0Megjithat\u00eb, edhe t\u00eb fshehura prapa emrash t\u00eb tjer\u00eb, ato jan\u00eb njohur, jan\u00eb lexuar dhe vler\u00ebsuar.<\/p>\n
Pavar\u00ebsisht liris\u00eb s\u00eb burrave p\u00ebr t\u00eb shkruar vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr at\u00eb q\u00eb ata konsideronin t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme, figura e nj\u00eb gruaje arriti t\u00eb dal\u00eb n\u00eb sip\u00ebrfaqe, ajo e Kleopatr\u00ebs. Si\u00e7 e dim\u00eb tashm\u00eb, Kleopatra ishte mbret\u00ebresha e Egjiptit, p\u00ebr t\u00eb cil\u00ebn u fol dhe u shkrua m\u00eb shum\u00eb se p\u00ebr \u00e7do grua tjet\u00ebr. Por, sa m\u00eb shum\u00eb u shkrua, aq m\u00eb shum\u00eb u devijua figura e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb e saj. Fatkeq\u00ebsia m\u00eb e madhe q\u00ebndron aty se, ky devijim ishte i q\u00ebllimsh\u00ebm. Historian\u00ebt, shkrimtar\u00ebt, poet\u00ebt, filozof\u00ebt, burrat, t\u00eb cil\u00ebt nuk e pranuan faktin se kishte ekzistuar nj\u00eb grua e till\u00eb, i vun nj\u00eb q\u00ebllim vetes, t\u00eb zhduknin gjurm\u00ebt e historis\u00eb se ka qen\u00eb dikush e cila ka d\u00ebshmuar faktin se\u00a0\u201cnj\u00eb grua e arsimuar \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb grua e rrezikshme\u201d<\/em><\/strong>. \u00c7far\u00eb ishte rrezik sipas tyre? Ata e shihnin rrezik mendimin e lir\u00eb, t\u00eb kuptuarit t\u00eb gj\u00ebrave, zgjuarsin\u00eb dhe guximin p\u00ebr ta p\u00ebrsosur vetveten n\u00ebp\u00ebrmjet leximit dhe pun\u00ebs s\u00eb vazhdueshme.<\/p>\n Kleopatra \u00ebsht\u00eb shembull i p\u00ebrparimit si pasoj\u00eb e edukimit dhe arsimimit. Ne jemi d\u00ebshmitar\u00eb q\u00eb shkolla e par\u00eb shqipe e vashave u hap n\u00eb vitin 1891, nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb q\u00eb kur flasim p\u00ebr Kleopatr\u00ebn flasim p\u00ebr vitet para er\u00ebs son\u00eb. Kjo d\u00ebshmon q\u00eb rruga drejt arsimimit dhe edukimit t\u00eb vashave nuk ka qen\u00eb e leht\u00eb, ka qen\u00eb shum\u00eb e gjat\u00eb, dhe patjet\u00ebr, jo t\u00eb gjith\u00eb kan\u00eb arritur ta kuptojn\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsin\u00eb e t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebs. A ka qen\u00eb n\u00eb ndonj\u00eb periudh\u00eb kohore e q\u00ebllimshme ndalesa p\u00ebr edukim t\u00eb vajzave? Mesiguri po. Madje edhe n\u00eb Maqedonin\u00eb e Veriut, sot e k\u00ebsaj dite ka vajza t\u00eb cilave ju mohohet e drejta e arsimimit, sado t\u00eb sakta t\u00eb jen\u00eb ligjet. Arsyet jan\u00eb t\u00eb shumta se p\u00ebrse ndodh kjo, por shumica prej tyre lidhen me \u201cvendin ku gruaja p\u00ebrket\u201d, e realiteti na d\u00ebshmon q\u00eb mendohet se ajo p\u00ebrket n\u00eb kuzhin\u00eb, n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi, n\u00eb familje. Shum\u00eb shpesh ndalimi p\u00ebr edukim, lidhet me funksionin reproduktiv t\u00eb gruas.<\/p>\n Gjithsesi, Kleopatra nuk e kishte nd\u00ebrmend t\u00eb dor\u00ebzohej as n\u00eb vitet para er\u00ebs son\u00eb. P\u00ebr nj\u00eb koh\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb gjat\u00eb nj\u00ebllosja e figur\u00ebs s\u00eb Kleopatr\u00ebs ishte detyra par\u00ebsore e kujtdo q\u00eb i jepej mund\u00ebsia. Kishin burrat frik\u00eb nga figura e saj? Sigurisht q\u00eb po, ngaq\u00eb e dinin se Kleopatra do t\u00eb ishte frym\u00ebzim i shum\u00eb grave n\u00eb momentin kur ato t\u00eb m\u00ebsonin se kush realisht ka qen\u00eb ajo dhe ngritjes intelektuale q\u00eb ajo ka pasur. Gruaja m\u00eb\u00a0\u00a0e fuqishme e historis\u00eb u b\u00eb e till\u00eb ngaq\u00eb u edukua n\u00eb qytetin me librarin\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb q\u00eb ka ekzistuar ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb. Ajo kalonte e mbyllur n\u00eb at\u00eb librari duke studiuar, lexuar dhe m\u00ebsuar. Aft\u00ebsia p\u00ebr t\u00eb kuptuar dhe folur shum\u00eb gjuh\u00eb t\u00eb ndryshme t\u00eb bot\u00ebs dhe oratoria e saj p\u00ebrsosej gjithnj\u00eb e m\u00eb shum\u00eb nga leximi i librave. K\u00ebshtu, ajo arriti t\u00eb fitonte mb\u00ebshtetjen dhe dashurin\u00eb e popullit, duke qen\u00eb shembull q\u00eb duhet t\u00eb ndiqnin t\u00eb gjith\u00eb. Burrat rrezikonin t\u00eb p\u00ebrballeshin me gra t\u00eb cilat e kishin gjetur burimin e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb t\u00eb fuqis\u00eb intelektuale, leximin.<\/p>\n Njer\u00ebzit gjithnj\u00eb mundohen q\u00eb suksesin e nj\u00eb gruaje t\u2019ia mveshin bukuris\u00eb fizike t\u00eb saj, por n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb rast \u00e7\u00ebshtja ndryshon. Saher\u00eb q\u00eb flitet p\u00ebr Kleopatr\u00ebn, vendoset n\u00eb diskutim fakti q\u00eb a ka qen\u00eb ajo e bukur. Plutarku tregon se bukuria e Kleopatr\u00ebs nuk ishte e jasht\u00ebzakonshme. Ajo u b\u00eb gruaja m\u00eb me ndikim, jo fal\u00eb pamjes se jashtme por fal\u00eb q\u00ebndrimit t\u00eb saj, k\u00ebmb\u00ebnguljes, personalitetit t\u00eb mir\u00ebformuar dhe ngritjes intelektuale.<\/p>\n Sot e k\u00ebsaj dite ekzistojn\u00eb kuota p\u00ebr p\u00ebrfshirje t\u00eb grave n\u00eb vendimarrje. Kodi zgjedhor aktual i Maqedonis\u00eb s\u00eb Veriut, parashikon q\u00eb t\u00eb pakt\u00ebn 40% e deputet\u00ebve n\u00eb Kuvend t\u00eb jen\u00eb gra, e Kuvendi aktualisht num\u00ebron 51 deputete gra, ose 42.5%. Kjo norm\u00eb vlen edhe p\u00ebr p\u00ebrb\u00ebrjen e k\u00ebshillave komunal. N\u00ebse kthehemi n\u00eb koh\u00eb dhe krahasojm\u00eb koh\u00ebn kur Kleopatra ka udh\u00ebhequr, mund t\u00eb imagjinojm\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsit\u00eb q\u00eb mund t\u00eb ket\u00eb pasur. Gjithsesi, Kleopatra ishte nj\u00eb\u00a0stratege mendjeholl\u00eb dhe negociatore e lindur<\/em>. Ajo ishte nj\u00eb shpirt i lir\u00eb dhe shum\u00eb ambicioze. Por, pavar\u00ebsisht karakterit t\u00eb saj t\u00eb fort\u00eb, iu desh t\u00eb p\u00ebrballet me sfida t\u00eb ndryshme. Ajo i shihte k\u00ebto sfida si eksperienc\u00eb p\u00ebr p\u00ebrsosshm\u00ebrin\u00eb e saj. Gjat\u00eb q\u00ebndrimit n\u00eb Rom\u00eb, v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsit\u00eb ishin t\u00eb m\u00ebdha. P\u00ebr nj\u00eb grua si ajo, me nj\u00eb mend\u00ebsi shum\u00eb ndryshe, i duhej t\u00eb p\u00ebrballej \u00e7do dit\u00eb me realitetin e dhimbsh\u00ebm. Ishte nj\u00eb epoke e err\u00ebt p\u00ebr \u00e7do grua n\u00eb Rom\u00eb, t\u00eb cilat nuk kishin autoritet dhe nuk kishin t\u00eb drejt\u00eb politike apo ligjore. Q\u00eb t\u00eb mbijetonin, duhet t\u00eb ishin t\u00eb padukshme. N\u00ebse Kleopatra arriti t\u00eb b\u00ebj ndryshime, kjo ngelet t\u00eb m\u00ebsohet nga ju kur t\u00eb lexoni librin \u201cKleopatra, nj\u00eb jet\u00eb.\u201d<\/p>\n