S\u2019ka ndjenj\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb se sa ajo q\u00eb e p\u00ebrjeton kur e sjell\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00eb nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb dhe prej atij momenti, s\u2019ka njeri q\u00eb don m\u00eb shum\u00eb se sa at\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb. K\u00ebshtu thuhet.<\/p>\n
Por s\u2019jan\u00eb pak n\u00eb num\u00ebr rastet kur prind\u00ebrit i braktistin ato, menj\u00ebher\u00eb pas lindjes ose pak vite m\u00eb von\u00eb. Arsyet se pse ata e marrin k\u00ebt\u00eb vendim mund t\u00eb jen\u00eb t\u00eb panum\u00ebrta, por kjo s\u2019e ndryshon faktin q\u00eb k\u00ebta f\u00ebmij\u00eb lihen n\u00eb dor\u00eb t\u00eb fatit, institucioneve apo klinikave t\u00eb ndryshme.<\/p>\n
K\u00ebshtu, sot n\u00eb Maqedonin\u00eb e Veriut gjithsej\u00a0119<\/strong>\u00a0f\u00ebmij\u00eb presin q\u00eb t\u00eb adoptohen, prej t\u00eb cil\u00ebve:<\/p>\n Shum\u00eb pak prej tyre adoptohen. P\u00ebr shembull, sipas t\u00eb dh\u00ebnave q\u00eb i siguruam nga Ministria p\u00ebr Pun\u00eb dhe Politik\u00eb Sociale, n\u00eb vitin\u00a02023<\/strong>\u00a0jan\u00eb adoptuar vet\u00ebm\u00a019<\/strong>\u00a0f\u00ebmij\u00eb, po aq sa n\u00eb vitin\u00a02022<\/strong>. N\u00eb vitin\u00a02021<\/strong>\u00a0jan\u00eb adoptuar\u00a021<\/strong>\u00a0f\u00ebmij\u00eb nd\u00ebrsa numri m\u00eb i vog\u00ebl i f\u00ebmij\u00ebve t\u00eb adoptuar brenda kat\u00ebr viteve \u00ebsht\u00eb sh\u00ebnuar n\u00eb vitin\u00a02020<\/strong>, ku jan\u00eb adoptuar vet\u00ebm\u00a017<\/strong>\u00a0f\u00ebmij\u00eb.<\/p>\n Fakti q\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb se nj\u00ebqind f\u00ebmij\u00eb presin q\u00eb t\u00eb adoptohen nuk ka sh\u00ebrbyer si alarm p\u00ebr institucionet kompetente q\u00eb t\u2019i leht\u00ebsojn\u00eb procedurat p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb, por p\u00ebrkundrazi, adoptimi n\u00eb Maqedonin\u00eb e Veriut mund t\u00eb zgjas\u00eb nga kat\u00ebr deri n\u00eb pes\u00eb vite.<\/p>\n Arta Mero \u00ebsht\u00eb ligj\u00ebruese e t\u00eb drejt\u00ebs familjare, thot\u00eb se nj\u00eb s\u00ebr\u00eb kushtesh duhet t\u00eb plot\u00ebsohen n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb mund t\u00eb adoptoni nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb nd\u00ebrsa jan\u00eb dy faza kryesore q\u00eb duhet kaluar, p\u00ebrgatitore dhe faza e marrjes s\u00eb vendimit p\u00ebrfundimtar p\u00ebr adoptim.<\/p>\n \u201cKa afate ligjore, por n\u00eb praktik\u00ebn juridike t\u00eb vendin ton\u00eb k\u00ebto afate n\u00eb t\u00eb shumt\u00ebn e rasteve nuk respektohen, madje edhe tejkalohen\u201d duke shtuar se shpesh ndodh\u00eb q\u00eb koha e pritjes nga adoptuesit potencial t\u00eb jet\u00eb aq e gjat\u00eb, q\u00eb rrezikon n\u00eb tejkalimin e mosh\u00ebs maksimale t\u00eb parapar\u00eb me ligj p\u00ebr adoptuesit, q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb\u00a045<\/strong>\u00a0vje\u00e7.<\/p>\n Ka nj\u00eb s\u00ebr\u00eb kriteresh q\u00eb duhet t\u00eb plot\u00ebsohen n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb mund t\u00eb aplikoni p\u00ebr adoptim t\u00eb nj\u00eb f\u00ebmije. Hulumtuam n\u00ebse p\u00ebr adoptim mund t\u00eb aplikojn\u00eb edhe personat e vet\u00ebm, p\u00ebrkat\u00ebsisht t\u00eb pamartuar, rezulton q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e lejuar, por jo domosdoshm\u00ebrisht e d\u00ebshiruar.<\/p>\n Adoptuesit potencial vler\u00ebsohen me pik\u00eb, sa m\u00eb shum\u00eb pik\u00eb, aq m\u00eb t\u00eb larta shanset p\u00ebr adoptim.<\/p>\n \u201c13 pik\u00eb jan\u00eb t\u00eb rezervuara p\u00ebr statusin martesor t\u00eb adoptuesve\/it potencial, edhe at\u00eb 13 pik\u00eb n\u00ebse jeton n\u00eb bashk\u00ebsi martesore m\u00eb shum\u00eb se 3 vjet, 10 pik\u00eb n\u00ebse jeton n\u00eb bashk\u00ebsi martesore deri n\u00eb 3 vjet, 4 pik\u00eb n\u00ebse jeton n\u00eb bashk\u00ebsi jasht\u00ebmartesore dhe 1 pik\u00eb n\u00ebse \u00ebsht\u00eb i\/e vetme\u201d tha Mero, shtoi se k\u00ebshtu \u201cmund t\u00eb konstatojm\u00eb q\u00eb legjislacioni ende i jep p\u00ebrpar\u00ebsi konceptit tradicional t\u00eb familjes duke e v\u00ebn\u00eb theksin n\u00eb martes\u00ebn dhe duke shmangur k\u00ebshtu bashk\u00ebsin\u00eb jasht\u00ebmartesore dhe personat e vet\u00ebm\u201d<\/p>\n Nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e thjesht\u00eb por sipas Art\u00ebs \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme periudha para themelimit t\u00eb adoptimit, ku f\u00ebmij\u00ebs i jepet nj\u00eb koh\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u2019u adaptuar me familjen e re, kjo periudhe s\u2019mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb m\u00eb e shkurt\u00ebr se\u00a02<\/strong>\u00a0muaj, as m\u00eb e gjat\u00eb se\u00a03<\/strong>, me p\u00ebrjashtime. Para se t\u00eb filloj\u00eb kjo procedur\u00eb, \u201cadoptuesit kan\u00eb t\u00eb drejt\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb njoftohen lidhur me gjendjen sh\u00ebndet\u00ebsore t\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebs\u201d tha Arta.<\/p>\n Maqedonia e Veriut p\u00ebrve\u00e7 q\u00eb nuk e njeh martes\u00ebn mes t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebs gjini, nuk i njeh as bashk\u00ebsite civile, kjo e b\u00ebn t\u00eb pamundur adoptimin e nj\u00eb f\u00ebmije nga ana e tyre. Pavar\u00ebsisht k\u00ebsaj, ekzistojn\u00eb mund\u00ebsi q\u00eb ata t\u00eb krijojn\u00eb familje.<\/p>\n Moll\u00ebkuqja bisedoi me nj\u00eb burr\u00eb gej, i cili \u00ebsht\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb baba p\u00ebrmes fekondimit artificial.<\/p>\n “\u00cbsht\u00eb p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsi e madhe t\u00eb adoptosh nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb, nuk e di n\u00ebse un\u00eb do t\u00eb isha n\u00eb gjendje ta rris at\u00eb i vet\u00ebm, edhe po t\u00eb mos ishte procesi aq i gjat\u00eb dhe i lodhsh\u00ebm. Prandaj edhe m\u00eb ka t\u00ebrhequr opsioni i fekondimit artificial, ku un\u00eb dhe shoqja ime jemi prind\u00ebrit biologjik t\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebs: nuk jemi t\u00eb martuar, por t\u00eb dy jemi shum\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrfshir\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00ebn e f\u00ebmij\u00ebs. Ligj\u00ebrisht, shoqja ime ka kujdestarin\u00eb kryesore p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebn, por mund t\u00eb them se t\u00eb dy kalojm\u00eb koh\u00ebn e nj\u00ebjt\u00eb me f\u00ebmij\u00ebn ton\u00eb.” tha bashk\u00ebbiseduesi i \u2018Moll\u00ebkuqja\u2019, i cili deshi t\u00eb ngelet anonim.<\/p>\n Aktualisht bashk\u00eb me shoqen e tij, n\u00ebn\u00ebn e f\u00ebmij\u00ebs, po i ndajn\u00eb p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsit\u00eb prind\u00ebrore. P\u00ebrkund\u00ebr q\u00eb familja t\u00eb cil\u00ebn ata e kan\u00eb krijuar nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb tradicionale apo e zakonshme, ata g\u00ebzojn\u00eb mb\u00ebshtetje t\u00eb plot\u00eb nga rrethi dhe familja.<\/p>\n \u201cKa qen\u00eb p\u00ebrvoj\u00eb interesante, dhe ajo q\u00eb mund t\u00eb them \u00ebsht\u00eb se disa njer\u00ebz n\u00eb situata t\u00eb ngjashme si e jona, pra nj\u00eb burr\u00eb gej dhe nj\u00eb grua lezbike, kan\u00eb marr\u00eb shembull nga ne dhe n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb kan\u00eb krijuar edhe ata familje, gj\u00eb q\u00eb m\u00eb b\u00ebn t\u00eb lumtur.\u201d tha ai.<\/p>\n Ai shtoi q\u00eb familja e tyre funksionon shum\u00eb mir\u00eb, ka komunikim t\u00eb mir\u00eb dhe t\u00eb sjellsh\u00ebm mes pal\u00ebve, dhe gj\u00ebja m\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme p\u00ebr ta \u00ebsht\u00eb se kan\u00eb nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb t\u00eb lumtur dhe t\u00eb sh\u00ebndosh\u00eb, q\u00eb fatmir\u00ebsisht nuk ka pasur probleme me bulliz\u00ebm.<\/p>\n Arta Mero spjegon se \u201cMenj\u00ebher\u00eb pas kryerjes me sukses t\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha procedurave p\u00ebr adoptim, n\u00eb Librin Amz\u00eb t\u00eb t\u00eb lindurve, si prind\u00ebr sh\u00ebnohen kurse si vend i lindjes se\u0308 fe\u0308mije\u0308s she\u0308nohet vendi, te\u0308 cilin me marre\u0308veshje do ta pe\u0308rcaktojne\u0308 adoptuesit\u201d.<\/p>\n Lidhja emocionale e krijuar mes adoptuesve potencial dhe f\u00ebmij\u00ebs si dhe kualiteti i kujdesit ndaj f\u00ebmij\u00ebs jan\u00eb t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsis\u00eb s\u00eb ve\u00e7ant\u00eb, n\u00eb lidhje me k\u00ebt\u00eb, Arta tha se realizohen edhe vizita mbik\u00ebqyr\u00ebse.<\/p>\n \u201cMbik\u00ebqyrja realizohet duke vizituar familjen n\u00eb periudha t\u00eb ndryshme t\u00eb dit\u00ebs q\u00eb t\u00eb mund t\u00eb mbik\u00ebqyret kryerja e aktiviteteve t\u00eb ndryshme ndaj f\u00ebmij\u00ebs. Paras\u00ebgjithash, bisedohet me adoptuesit dhe me f\u00ebmij\u00ebn n\u00ebse \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb mosh\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb rritur, mbik\u00ebqyret f\u00ebmija dhe zhvillimi i tij, bisedohet me an\u00ebtar\u00ebt e tjer\u00eb t\u00eb familjes, kush\u00ebrinjt\u00eb, shoq\u00ebrin\u00eb dhe tjera\u201d tha Mero.<\/p>\n Interesi p\u00ebr t\u00eb adoptuar f\u00ebmij\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb jasht\u00ebzakonisht i ul\u00ebt n\u00eb Maqedonin\u00eb e Veriut. Kjo sipas Art\u00ebs vjen edhe si pasoj\u00eb e ekzistimit t\u00eb metodave t\u00eb ndryshime alternative t\u00eb lindjes s\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebs, p\u00ebrkat\u00ebsisht t\u00eb reproduktimit artificial Tema e adoptimit vazhdon t\u00eb jet\u00eb nj\u00eb tem\u00eb delikate, e heshtur nga nj\u00eb kultur\u00eb ku normat shoq\u00ebrore jan\u00eb t\u00eb rr\u00ebnjosura thell\u00eb, dhe stigma e krijimit t\u00eb familjes n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb ndikon shum\u00eb n\u00eb vendimet e individ\u00ebve dhe \u00e7ifteve p\u00ebr t\u00eb adoptuar.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" S\u2019ka ndjenj\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb se sa ajo q\u00eb e p\u00ebrjeton kur e sjell\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00eb nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb dhe prej atij momenti, s\u2019ka njeri q\u00eb don m\u00eb shum\u00eb se sa at\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb. K\u00ebshtu thuhet. Por s\u2019jan\u00eb pak n\u00eb num\u00ebr rastet kur prind\u00ebrit i braktistin ato, menj\u00ebher\u00eb pas lindjes ose pak vite m\u00eb von\u00eb. Arsyet se […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":14,"featured_media":10176,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[5],"tags":[360,36,45,361,362,78],"class_list":["post-10175","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-marre","tag-adoptim","tag-barazia-gjinore","tag-burra","tag-gay","tag-lezbike","tag-lgbt"],"yoast_head":"\n\n
Rruga e gjat\u00eb drejt adoptimit t\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebs<\/strong><\/h5>\n
\u00c7iftet gej dhe lezbike nuk njihen si adoptues potencial<\/strong><\/h5>\n
\u00c7far\u00eb pas adoptimit?<\/strong><\/h5>\n