E para e pun\u00ebs, ka grua q\u00eb braktis burrin pa fare dhimt\u00eb, po nuk ka n\u00ebn\u00eb q\u00eb me t\u00eb njejt\u00ebn gjakftoht\u00ebsi braktis f\u00ebmij\u00ebt.<\/p>\n
Gruaja n\u00eb fjal\u00eb, person i njohur p\u00ebr redaksin\u00eb, me dhun\u00eb nga babai detyrohet t\u00eb martohet me nj\u00eb burr\u00eb q\u00eb kishte trefishin e mosh\u00ebs s\u00eb saj. T\u00eb bashk\u00ebjetoj n\u00eb nj\u00eb sht\u00ebpi me kushte t\u00eb mjerueshme dhe n\u00eb bashk\u00ebsi me kunet\u00ebr, vjeh\u00ebrri. Q\u00eb situata t\u00eb r\u00ebndohej m\u00eb shum\u00eb ai ishte i papun\u00eb. I papun\u00eb dhe i dhunsh\u00ebm kjo e r\u00ebndon deri n\u00eb pafund\u00ebsi situat\u00ebn.<\/p>\n
Instinktin p\u00ebr t\u00eb shp\u00ebtuar e kan\u00eb t\u00eb gjith\u00eb, por grat\u00eb shum\u00eb shpesh dor\u00ebzohen n\u00eb situatat kur vin\u00eb nga vende rurale ku mb\u00ebshtetja p\u00ebr to jo vet\u00ebm mungon, por kan\u00eb frik\u00eb tu thon\u00eb “jo” prind\u00ebrve kur kan\u00eb vendosur q\u00eb t’i martojn\u00eb si vajza n\u00eb fjal\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Nejse, dit\u00ebt e net\u00ebt e saja ngelen makthi i s\u00eb kaluar\u00ebs, pasi vendosi t\u00eb shp\u00ebtoj duke l\u00ebn\u00eb pas f\u00ebmij\u00ebt p\u00ebr t\u00eb cil\u00ebt paguan alimentacion.<\/p>\n
– Kush je ti?<\/p>\n
– Jam un\u00eb ajo gruaja q\u00eb m\u00eb quajt\u00ebn \u00e7kamos, me fjal\u00ebt m\u00eb banale. Jam un\u00eb gruaja q\u00eb braktisa f\u00ebmij\u00ebt n\u00eb nj\u00eb qend\u00ebr tregtare n\u00eb Tetov\u00eb, sipas disave. Por jo, un\u00eb nuk braktisa f\u00ebmijet e mi braktisa nj\u00eb burr\u00eb q\u00eb nuk ishte kurr\u00eb burr\u00eb, nj\u00eb burr\u00eb q\u00eb ma zgjodh\u00ebn, jo q\u00eb e zgjodha.<\/p>\n
– Nuk shkonit bashk\u00eb?<\/p>\n
–\u00a0 Un\u00eb p\u00ebrbiva \u00e7do gj\u00eb t\u00eb atij njeriut, s’kisha zgjedhje tjet\u00ebr, pranova mosh\u00ebn, arroganc\u00ebn dhun\u00ebn fizike e psikologjike nga nj\u00eb familje 20 an\u00ebtarshe ku patate me krip gjak dhe lot haje \u00e7do dit\u00eb. Pes\u00eb vite bashk\u00ebjetes\u00eb me at\u00eb njeri, jo vet\u00ebm q\u00eb nuk m\u00eb nxirrte t\u00eb darkoja e t\u00eb haja drek\u00eb si\u00e7 thot\u00eb zot\u00ebria n\u00eb fjal\u00eb, por edhe f\u00ebmij\u00ebt kur na kan\u00eb lindur nuk ishte nj\u00eb her\u00eb me mua moralisht, mos flasim p\u00ebr mb\u00ebshtetje materiale, ato gj\u00ebra q\u00eb m\u00eb duheshin na i siguronte v\u00ebllai i tij.<\/p>\n
– Megjithat\u00eb, p\u00ebr ty u thurr\u00ebn shum\u00eb legjenda, gruaja q\u00eb braktisi f\u00ebmij\u00ebt?<\/p>\n
–\u00a0 Nuk braktisa f\u00ebmij\u00ebt, dua t’i shp\u00ebtoj, t’i nxjerr n\u00eb drit\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e mi. K\u00ebt\u00eb vendim e kam marr\u00eb n\u00eb momentin q\u00eb m\u00eb k\u00ebrkonin nj\u00eb akullore e nuk kisha para t’u bleja, merrnin l\u00ebpinin lug\u00ebt q\u00eb i kishin hedhur f\u00ebmij\u00ebt tjer\u00eb rrug\u00ebve e un\u00eb qaja dhe vdisja \u00e7do dit\u00eb. N\u00eb at\u00eb moment nuk durova, i vura kusht vetes q\u00eb un\u00eb do t\u00eb punoj q\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebve t\u00eb mi t\u00eb mos ju mungoj\u00eb asgj\u00eb.<\/p>\n
– Po atyre u mungon n\u00ebna ?<\/p>\n
– \u00cbsht\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb q\u00eb un\u00eb ju mungoj, po un\u00eb i jam p\u00ebrgj\u00ebruar babit t\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebve t\u00eb mi tel\u00eb punoj s’ka pranuar. P\u00ebr vete kam gjetur edhe sht\u00ebpi, edhe pun\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb jetoj me f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e mi, por nga mentaliteti i eg\u00ebr babai nuk m\u00eb lejoi dhe m\u00eb ndodhi di\u00e7ka shum\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb cilat ekzistojn\u00eb denoncimet n\u00eb polici. Thjesht\u00eb ndihesha e rob\u00ebruar nga nj\u00eb bot\u00eb burrash dhe dikur i vura litarin vetes, por ishte biri im q\u00eb m\u00eb tha “Mam, n\u00ebse ti vdes kush do punoj p\u00ebr ne?”. At\u00ebher\u00eb i kam v\u00ebn\u00eb kusht vetes do punoj e jetoj p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e mi.<\/p>\n
– T\u00eb kan\u00eb par\u00eb familjar\u00ebt e tu t\u00eb dhunuar ?<\/p>\n
– Disa her\u00eb\u00a0 m\u00eb kan\u00eb par\u00eb tek sa kam ikur nga dhuna fizike dhe ajo psikologjike bashk\u00eb me f\u00ebmij\u00ebt. Refuzoja t\u00eb kthehesha, por babai m\u00eb detyronte. Familjar\u00ebt m\u00eb ofendonin n\u00eb sy t\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebve, derisa djali u tha ” ju i keni t\u00eb gjitha, ne s’kemi as nj\u00eb \u00e7okollad\u00eb”<\/p>\n
– Thon\u00eb se ike me t\u00eb dashurin?<\/p>\n
– Ky rreth \u00ebsht\u00eb i etur p\u00ebr t\u00eb gjykuar. I duan m\u00eb shum\u00eb viktimat se vajzat q\u00eb p\u00ebrpiqen t\u00eb shp\u00ebtojn\u00eb. Un\u00eb ika p\u00ebr kontrat\u00eb pun\u00eb, ndodhem n\u00eb Itali dhe p\u00ebrpiqem q\u00eb t’i shp\u00ebtoj dhe f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e mi t\u00eb cil\u00ebve u kam premtuar se do ta b\u00ebj. Un\u00eb nga f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e mi kurr\u00eb s’do heq dor\u00eb, as nuk kam hequr kurr\u00eb.<\/p>\n
– T\u00eb duket gjyq i ashp\u00ebr me q\u00eb ish’ burri doli dhe u mundua t\u00eb hedh balt\u00eb mbi ty?<\/p>\n
Uroj q\u00eb grat\u00eb shqiptare n\u00eb Maqdoni t\u00eb mos gjykohen me nj\u00eb mikrofon n\u00eb dor\u00eb, e aq m\u00eb pak t\u00eb jet\u00eb z\u00ebri i nj\u00eb gruaje gazetare q\u00eb pyet nj\u00ebr\u00ebn pal\u00eb dhe gjykon me tone t\u00eb ashpra. Ai flet n\u00eb intervist\u00eb me kurrizin kthyer paburr\u00ebrisht, nd\u00ebrsa un\u00eb do t\u00eb dal me fytyr\u00eb gra t\u00eb dashura, nuk m\u00eb humbin moralin mua disa gra q\u00eb k\u00ebnaqen me nj\u00eb fustan t\u00eb bler\u00eb nga burri e q\u00eb duhet t’i marrin leje vjehrrive t\u00eb shkojn\u00eb te n\u00ebna. Nuk ma ulin moralin as disa burra q\u00eb jan\u00eb m\u00ebsuar gruan ta trajtojn\u00eb si sh\u00ebrb\u00ebtore e kur t\u00eb vij zot\u00ebria n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi t’i thot\u00eb “s’ke b\u00ebr\u00eb gj\u00eb”.<\/p>\n
A do t\u00eb thot\u00eb e moralshme t\u00eb rrish e t\u00eb durosh n\u00eb nj\u00eb sht\u00ebpi ku vjehrri t\u00eb shan n\u00ebn\u00ebn?! Un\u00eb shp\u00ebtova nga ajo sht\u00ebpi, por m\u00eb vjen keq p\u00ebr grat\u00eb q\u00eb ngelen aty e vazhdojn\u00eb t’u shahen n\u00ebnat e vdekura n\u00eb varr.<\/p>\n
– \u00c7’t\u00eb ka vrar\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb ?<\/p>\n
– Burrat n\u00eb komente q\u00eb d\u00ebshirojn\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00eb vrasin, krejt kjo e nxitur nga nj\u00eb gazetare grua. Mua p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e mi nuk m\u00eb tremb as plumbi, po mua s’m\u00eb interesojn\u00eb fjal\u00ebt p\u00ebrderisa e di se f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e mi nuk m\u00eb nd\u00ebrrojn\u00eb me asgj\u00eb n\u00eb bot\u00eb, se mami punon edhe p\u00ebr ato, ju d\u00ebrgoj para muaj p\u00ebr muaj, e ku ta di si i harxhon babai i tyre “hero” q\u00eb gjysm\u00ebn e komenteve i ka ber\u00eb vet\u00eb duke u p\u00ebrpjekur ta p\u00ebrul\u00eb n\u00ebn\u00ebn e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve t\u00eb tij.<\/p>\n
Gruaja n\u00eb fjal\u00eb si\u00e7 e shihni ka ikur nga nj\u00eb bot\u00eb e eg\u00ebr burrash. Nga nj\u00eb mentalitet q\u00eb e gjykon pse ka gjetur m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn si t\u00eb shp\u00ebtoj. Epo m\u00eb mir\u00eb ta shani se sa ta vajtoni !<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n E para e pun\u00ebs, ka grua q\u00eb braktis burrin pa fare dhimt\u00eb, po nuk ka n\u00ebn\u00eb q\u00eb me t\u00eb njejt\u00ebn gjakftoht\u00ebsi braktis f\u00ebmij\u00ebt. Gruaja n\u00eb fjal\u00eb, person i njohur p\u00ebr redaksin\u00eb, me dhun\u00eb nga babai detyrohet t\u00eb martohet me nj\u00eb burr\u00eb q\u00eb kishte trefishin e mosh\u00ebs s\u00eb saj. T\u00eb bashk\u00ebjetoj n\u00eb nj\u00eb sht\u00ebpi me kushte […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":15,"featured_media":10125,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[347],"tags":[11],"class_list":["post-10124","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dhune","tag-dhune"],"yoast_head":"\nThis material is completely or partly financed by UK International Development and The Kvinna till Kvinna Foundation, that do not necessarily agree with the opinions expressed within. The author alone is responsible for the content.<\/em><\/strong><\/h5>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"